Friday, April 24, 2009

BORN TO BE WILD

Funny thing about Gavin, he is not a big fan of team sports. He played soccer for a couple of years and thought it was just “OK”. We’ve tried to talk him into little league since all of his friends play, even the girls, but nope, he REALLY doesn’t want to play.

Even though we've brought the subject up several times over the past couple of years, we feel very strongly about not forcing him if it’s really not who he is but we’re on the lookout for something that will teach him the importance of being a team and how to rely on and be relied on by others.

What we are not concerned with is Gavin’s athletic ability. This kid was born to be wild and we are more than happy to involve him in the things he loves.

Whether it’s riding quads and motorcycles, surfing and boogie boarding or playing golf with dad, Gavin does pretty well.






Surfing with his bf Austin.




Biking with cousin Bradley.


Racing his buddy Jake.


Getting a little air here…..





Every fingerprint is different, every person molded from their own life experiences. Sunflowers don’t do well in the shade even though Impatiens thrive there.. Every child has different God given talents that they just naturally excel in. Find out what it is that your kids really love doing or would love to try and encourage them in that way. The world needs more athletes and artists, scientists and marine biologists (Gavin’s dream job). I love being a mom and I'm so proud of my son, whatever he dreams of being.

Wednesday, April 22, 2009

WHAT WOULD YOU TAKE WITH YOU?

Have you ever been asked that age old question … “What would you take with you to a deserted island?” Not sure? Well how about if you were just, lets say….. locked out of the house for the day?

Yep, of all the goofy things I have done, this one takes the cake…. Gavin and I were racing off to school as usual. I had a backpack and a camera in my hand because I wanted to take pictures of the little bouquet of flowers that we picked for Gavin’s teacher. See it’s Teacher Appreciation Week at school.

“Ok honey, smile..."click" …oh that’s cute, let’s take one more….."click"…how sweet. OK, let’s jump in the car……uhhhhh, where are the keys???”


Look at this cute kid. Happy, happy, happy because he didn’t know, yet, that in a few minutes we would have to walk almost a mile to school (yes I know… it could have been 3 miles in the snow) and I was not quite prepared to be seen in public. Let’s just say that I wasn’t wearing all of the necessary undergarments that a modest mommy should be wearing before greeting fellow parents in the office which was exactly where we needed to go since we were definitely going to be late.







Oh, and my footwear? The absolute flippiest flops I own.



So we made it to school and then I strolled back home cause that's all you can do in flip flops. The bigger question plaguing my mind at this point was how was I going to survive for the day? I called Kevin from the school office only to find out that he was out at the valley office and wouldn’t be back in our area until much after I had to walk back up to school and pick up Gav.

The forecast predicted temps over 100! Well, at least I had running water. Then a thought occurred to me, maybe the trailer was unlocked...checked it…..it was. Hallelujah! Wooo hooo!

I looked pretty silly giving myself a high-five but what can I say, silly is as silly does.



We'd just came back from a camping trip over Spring Break so I was sure there were still some food items left in there like chips and salsa or marshmallows. The breakfast of champions right?

What else could I use… hmmmmm



AH HA! This little baby could be a life saver on a day like this.



Got to keep the mind sharp.




Plenty of time for reflection.



Then, I spotted an item that I was happy to be in possession of but the thought of having to use it sent chills down my spine and put a knot in my gut…. GULP!



It was inevitable. None of my neighbors were home and most of my girlfriends live at least a mile or two away. Those who are closer work during the day.

The clocked ticked on and I seemed to manage the morning pretty well. But as afternoon approached, I became uncomfortably aware that I may need to put my little trailer find to use. I seriously began to break out into a sweat and not because of the rising temperature.

Something just kept telling me to check the front door again even though I had done so several times over the course of the morning somehow expecting the result to be different. I knew it wouldn’t be but….ok, I’m desperate.

I gave the knob a jiggle and of course still found it locked. Then I gave it a good jerk to the right and it sprung right open. “WHAT?” I blurted out loud. “How is this possible?”

I went inside and unlocked the backdoor, then headed back out to the front to retest the lock. “SPRINGGG” It popped open again. “Wow!” So as it turns out, my security screen is not so secure, at least not when the bottom lock alone is securing it.

At any rate, I was completely grateful to be back inside the house. First things first, I ran straight down the hall to the first door on the left. As I sat there reflecting on the pure absurdity of the situation, a scripture came to mind.

“All things work together for good for those who love the Lord and are called according to His purpose” you’ll notice that it doesn’t say that ALL things ARE good. It says they work together for good. I feel quite certain that this was God’s way of showing me that our home is not at all safe with the bottom lock alone, kind of a heads up. Although we live in a great neighborhood and the crime rate is extremely low, we do from time to time have a few unsavory characters roaming the neighborhood soliciting their products, gizmos, windows, tree services, etc…

I feel blessed to know that my slight inconvenience could potentially save our home from a break-in. When we travel, we lock it up like Fort Knox of course but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve flown out of the house to run errands and slammed the door closed relying on the bottom lock for safety.

I don’t anticipate any wrong doers violating our home anytime soon, like I said, our neighborhood is pretty great. But if I choose to believe that all things happen for a reason, it would be unwise of me to ignore this event and chalk it up to nothing more than a good story. Besides, if not divine intervention, I’d have to admit to being a harebrained nitwit so....divine intervention it is… (wink, wink).

Friday, April 17, 2009

Easter 09'

No holiday stirs the faith or holds more hope than Easter. We are so blessed here in California to have magnificent weather ninety percent of the time. This year was no exception. In fact, the kids were hunting for Easter eggs barefoot in Grandma’s backyard. As we watched all of the kids laughing and squealing with anticipation and excitement, I couldn't help but wonder if the reaction wasn't much the same when the disciples discovered the empty tomb on that glorious third day.































We hope you all had a blessed Easter full of family and friends and the hope of a better future.

Much love,
The Varg’s

Sunday, April 12, 2009

HaPpy EASTER and......



A special day in history all around.

Saturday, April 11, 2009

Quick update on “Hummy”

We’ve been following the baby’s progress since it’s sweet lil birth. We have no pictures of it’s first few days because we didn’t want to disturb the nest. After hatching, the baby just laid on it’s back in the nest waiting for mama to bring it bugs. After a few days, he finally rolled over and began trying to sit up. His head barely reached over the nest.





Three days later, he is sitting pretty but not quite ready to leave. This baby, we believe is a male due to the green feathers beginning to unfold on his wings.







I imagine that in the next day or so, the lil’ hummy will start venturing out to nearby branches and within a week or two will be humming along his way meeting other neighborhood birds and learning the fine art of pollinating my garden. God is truly amazing. The more we learn, the more we are amazed. Humming birds have NO legs, only feet. They can’t walk. The only purpose for their feet is to grasp branches once they land. Our hummy’s nest in incredibly secure. I can’t believe the detail and care taken to secure it against wind, rain and predators. It is so well hidden from view, you’d have to know exactly where to look to see it. It’s been a fun adventure for Gavin to see nature at work up close. I hope he’ll always remember it.

Friday, April 10, 2009

MIRACLES HAPPEN EVERYDAY

Meet Macy Joy Marthinsen.
Born April 9th, 2009
7lbs 15 oz.
20-1/2 inches long.

She’s absolutely beautiful. Her hair is dark but has cute little blonde streaks through it. I’m sure she will change drastically over the next few weeks so I will try to keep up with the pics and updates.

Congrats Camile, Jan and big sis Mia. We are so thrilled to finally meet our new girl.